Well actually this topic came about when Kris and I were talking on MSN. In fact, the reason i want to talk about this is because well, it's just about time that we all should know.
Remember when we were younger or heck even right now, we are crushing on somebody. It may be a best friend, a stranger or a neighbour.
In some cases we headed for a crash. With the reasons of thoughts about ' he won't like me.' or ' he's taken by some shallow person ' or well, he's just not that into us.
Some people get up on their feet by one day and start roaming around again and it's a vicious cycle. But some of us don't. We need our bestie's support, love and that big genuine hug (not the fake aww hugs, i mean those REAL air-tight hugs).
In every group, there's always one best friend that tells us - "oh come on forget about him, the right one will come."
NOW THAT, is something that as a teenager whom filled with crazy hormones, would like to analyze.
To me, personally. I think that there's no such thing as the right one will come.
If you sit there, staring at the sun and moon, day and night passes. And you expect some stranger who happens to be the love of your life, just randomly sit next to you and say hi. That, my dear readers, only exist in romance novels and the back of women's head.
It won't happen if we don't do anything and don't explore anywhere. And just sit there on our butts and PRAY some perfect guy to come along - it just won't happen.
SO. You may ask : "Then how exactly do we find true love?"
I can directly tell you - true love is VERY difficult to find. You might get married to a man you love, but the guy who held the fate of being your true love might be in some other country speaking another language!
Thus, we should love the one we're with. Yes i quoted one of my favourite book, Love The One You're With by Emily Griffth.
Yet again you ask : "Alright, if that's the case, HOW to do we actually find a guy that likes us? All of my friends tell me that he WILL come one day."
What is this, the 1950s novels? As women and teenagers of 2010, i am glad to tell you guys about something - just be yourself.
You just be yourself! Eat the most goofy food, laugh the most goofy way, walk like a duck, fart like bugs bunny! Just be YOU. If a guy likes you for WHO you exactly are, that my friend, that is what i call a guy who truly likes you.
What do we learn today?
Number 1) : Forget about the rule about 'he is going to come'. By then you would be a nun already for Pete's sake. GO AND EXPLORE ALREADY, what are you waiting for?!
Number 2) : NEVER see every guy as a potential boyfriend material. Not only it seems despo, but it's just plain CRAZY and you might have a chance of actually scaring a guy off.
Number 3) : Be yourself. If the guy you like doesn't like you for who you are, MOVE ON! He is definitely not worth your time! BE WHO YOU ARE, love yourself. :)
That's all for today. I shall see you guys soon. :D
Mongie. ♥
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